Shifting Gears

Shifting Gears

Interpersonal communication has become a huge field of study and development since the 1960’s, prior to which the best advice for dealing with conflict might be a lecture on politeness. Trouble is, we’re so spoilt for choice today, it’s hard to know what the best...
Feelings Are Important, Not Supreme

Feelings Are Important, Not Supreme

Following on from last week’s post How You Feeling Today? in which the importance of a good vocabulary for feelings underpins good communication, this post is about context: why feelings matter, but only to a point. Let’s frame it as a question: “How important are...
How You Feeling Today?

How You Feeling Today?

I was so impressed by the movie “Inside Out” that I became a little pushy about getting people to see it. Have you seen it? Consider this a push… The movie started in the imagination of Pete Docter as a result of watching his daughter mature and marveling at her mind....
Is it Me or Is Everyone Here Crazy?

Is it Me or Is Everyone Here Crazy?

“I think my house-mate is a psychopath,” said a recent caller, Megan, to the podcast Every Little Thing, who went on to ask in an anxious tone, “How can I tell if he’s going to try and kill me?” Turns out, the “house-mate” is a cat. Megan’s cat, Pushkin, meets most of...
Talk to Yourself – Even Replying Isn’t Crazy!

Talk to Yourself – Even Replying Isn’t Crazy!

What’s your favorite joke about talking to yourself? Here’s mine: Me: Is it weird to talk to yourself?Me: No Have you found yourself talking to yourself more during lockdown? You’re not alone. This January 2021 Washington Post article describes Aisha Tyler’s...